Give a girl a break

I've resisted writing about this subject for a few days, really I have. But since the latest scientific report from Duke University was released indicating that women are more grumpy in the morning than men ............ well, all I can say is hrumph !

Oh Holly Golightly, I can relate to your pain.

Let me start by saying loud and proud that I am not a morning person {Richard's is reading this saying 'whew, that's for sure}. I don't apologize for that, any more than I would expect Richard to apologize for the fact that he is not a night owl. Whether you are a morning person or a night owl, sleep deprivation can make you grumpy.

But I am a night owl. So that means while my partner is wandering towards the bedroom in a trance like state, I am settling in on a project that didn't get my attention during the day, or have some quiet time to myself.
I fall asleep easily, but have trouble staying asleep after a few hours and I've learned that going to bed too early means I'll lay awake for most of the night.

 All the coffee beans in Columbia won't make me a morning person!

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Some of the factors that contribute to sleep deprivation in women are obvious:

Hormonal - the life long cycle of hormone issues that plagues women's physical and physiological well being. {and this could be an entirely different blog post - but gentlemen, unless you are a Doctor do not ever utter the phrase PMS - ever!}.

Responsibility overload - life can be too much for women who have full-time employment outside of the home, take care of a home and are generally the primary caregiver of children and for some, the needs of family elders. For women who stay at home taking care of children, family and home, the demands are just as great and compounded by the pressure to work outside of the home.
  
Motherhood - add to the stress of the day from working outside of the home or from caring for a children all day long, there are nights tending to a child's needs or illness. Sleepless nights walking the floor watching the clock.
 
It is important to note that while men fill the role of caregiver for their children and homes as well, the bulk of responsibility is traditionally fulfilled by women. We tend to try and squeeze just one more thing into the day from the to-do-list even if it means we reduce our amount of sleep.

Sleep disturbances - whether you sleep alone or with a partner, noise, light, air, and temperature all play a factor in the quality of your sleep.

If I've had a bad night of not sleeping Richard will always ask me 'was I snoring?' {sorry Honey for revealing that - but really very sweet that you take on the responsibility for my lack of sleep so willingly}. The truth is it doesn't really matter if he snores or not ........... I'm most likely not sleeping anyway.

If people were meant to pop out of bed, we would sleep in a toaster.

Behind all of the she-versus-he kind of chattering that the media has embraced regarding the study, there are health issues with serious consequences. The headline 'women wake up grumpier' certainly got the attention of men and fire under women. But the point that Duke University scientist make is that there are serious health concerns and risks for women related to the lack of sleep.

via : housetohome.co.uk

Scientists have discovered that women suffer both physically and mentally if they do not receive enough sleep.  As a matter of fact, 'women need 20 minutes more sleep per day than men require. That is because of the female multi-tasking brain'; according to one of Britain's leading authorities on sleep.

In another study Professor Jim Horne, Director of the Sleep Research Centre in Loughborough University in England, remarks that 'one of the major functions of sleep is allow the brain to recover and repair itself'.

             'During deep sleep, the cortex - the part of the brain responsible for thought,  memory, language and so on - disengages from the senses and goes into recovery mode. The more of your brain you use during the day, the more of it that needs to recover and, consequently, the more sleep you need.'

           'Women tend to multi-task - they do lots at once and are flexible - and so they use more of their actual brain than men do. Because of that, their sleep need is greater.'

           'A man who has a complex job that involves a lot of decision-making and lateral thinking may also need more sleep than the average male - though probably still not as much as a woman'.

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According to Duke University Dr. Michael Breus; 

                'Women suffer more than men, both mentally and physically, if they are forced to skimp on their sleep'.

                'Women are at higher risk heart disease, depression and psychological problems, sleep-deprived women have extra clotting factors in their blood, which can lead to stroke. They also have higher inflammation markers, which indicate developing health problems. As inflammation markers are also linked to pain, women can literally be in more pain when they wake up.'

Women with sleep deprivation are at a higher cardiovascular risk. Emerging evidence also suggests a potential role for sleep deprivation as a predictor or risk factor for conditions like obesity and diabetes {per womensheart.org}.

So when life's demands take over and you are feeling sleep deprived, what is a grumpy girl to do?  According to the experts ................

Maintain a regular sleep and wake time.
Exercise regularly, but avoid exercising three hours before bedtime.

Do not eat two to three hours before bedtime.

Avoid caffeine and chocolate six to eight hours before bedtime

Restrict fluids, especially alcohol, close to bedtime

Spend 30 minutes before bedtime to turn off the TV and computer.
Instead take a warm bubble bath or snuggle down with a book.
Take a short nap during the day.

My sleep deprived self is guilty not doing any of this! 

Sleeping ..... like a baby.      {my Granddaughter}

It is much more than waking up feeling groggy or grumpy, it is about your good health.

                                        Are you a night owl or a morning person?  
                                                   What is your sleep routine?

Finally, hard nails

I have always had soft nails that split and peeled just as they started any bit of growth. Years ago....... when my Daughter was a toddler, I started wearing acrylic nails. It was my solution to pretty nails all the time. I just didn't intend to wear acrylic that long.
It was back in the 80's when long nails and nail art was a big trend. I look back at pictures of me holding one of my kids and wonder how I didn't stab them in the eye. Sensibly I cut my nails to a shorter more professional length and always wore them with a french manicure finish.
I switched to wearing bio-gel nails over the recent years, which were a bit less invasive {who was I kidding}. I never had fungus or any other nail problems on my natural nails, which can happen easily with artificial nail applications.

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I always were a bright colour polish on my toes - all year long, and love getting pedicures.  But I prefer to wear my fingernails natural, without polish - how ironic.

It was back in the late 80's that the owner of the nail shop I went to asked me to train with her. I worked part-time learning about nail applications, pedicures, manicures, and nail art techniques. Later I took a space of my own in a hair shop providing nail services, but most of my business came from a mobile nail service that I offered.
Nail art has recently re-surged and is being presented as a fashion accessory with a variety of colours and applications. I seriously hope that the trend does not include long nails again.

I've tried a couple of times to leave the acrylic off for extended periods of time, but my natural nails broke at the quick {ahh painful} and peeled. No wonder - the poor little nail beds were crying out.
This January I was refinishing a piece of furniture for a friends baby nursery; my nails were in need of a manicure and took a beating via the refinishing project. I left the acrylic off and began a two month project of treating my nails. I tried everything - all of those notable nail products that dominate the market. It was worse - I'm convinced that the products are designed to dry out your nail and send you on a search for more products.

Then I remembered an interview with Shania Twain where she mentioned that her biggest beauty secret was using the cream for horses hoofs on her nails. Off to google I went to find horse hoof cream ..... and I discovered a nail cream called Hard as Hoof.
The reviews were glowing, and this was my last ditch effort to help my now almost non-existent nails. My search for where-to-buy took me to Walmart. I think I paid about $7 and change for this nail cream. And it is amazing!

I love that this product can be applied into your nail bed over nail polish. I massage this into my nails several times a day and always before I go to bed. It is non greasy and smells like almond paste - AND, it works!!
Ta-da, my nails are growing and they are not splitting or peeling like they used to. I've started getting regular manicures and really enjoy wearing a soft blush natural nail bed shade of colour.

It's just one more step to a healthier regime that I've promised myself I'm going to stick with.

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The Gift of Better Health

It's that time of year again, when many people join or return to their health club as part of a 

New Year's resolution. 

Lucy stretching it out.

It may mean that despite the abundance of great equipment at my health club, there could be a delay to use some of the equipment. I've been reviewing a new floor routine to fill in the gaps when I am waiting for specific equipment. In the process I have discovered some great online video's of exercise programs that challenge your strength and endurance. 

I am hoping that I perform the new routine with a bit more ease and grace than Lucy.

Give yourself the gift of activity. 

You don't have to run..... you can walk. 

You don't have to sweat it out in hot yoga...... you can perform simple stretches. 

You don't have to spin for an hour....... you could discover that you still do know how to ride a bike. 

Give yourself the gift of better health..... 

there is nothing more Glamourous, and 

........You deserve it.